Hello, I don’t even know you, Betty Wantstodom, and since you have even less investment in me as a person you are that much more likely to out me to someone I didn’t want to be outed to or turn me into cheap gossip.

The longest I have worn it is for 2 weeks, but I am hoping to finish the entire month of October for the Locktober challenge. I have been very lucky to have a partner who gave me absolute faith and trust, and neither fetishized nor demonized me for what I did. Youwillnotethatamajorareaofconcernisthatmaledomsmaydominatemen,butshouldnotbeallowedtodominatewomenunderanycircumstances. They are usually only set in response to actions made by visitors which amount to a request for services, such as setting privacy preferences, logging. As a side note, I can’t tell you how irritating it is when someone I am out to refers someone I have never met to me for questions.

AswithalldominationgamesthisstuffdoeshavethepotentialtogetoutofhandandduetothefactthatthesubmissivetakestheinitiativeitisIthinkmoreliabletobecomeadestructiveaddictionthanstufflikephysicaldominancewherethesubmissiveisusuallypassive. I can’t help it either way because that’s just what I’ve been through, but I can ask that you listen when I say that this is only one person’s experience. Idon'thavethisfetishassuch;butIcanneverhelpbutrespectsomeonewhohasmasteredsomethinganddoesaparticularjobwithahighlevelofskill,whichshedoes. The"purchasedpage"(itemsthathavealreadybeenboughtforher)is9pageslongandismadeupprimarilyofclothes,shoes,jewellery,thingsforthehomeandsomeotherthingsthatIwouldconsideruselessgarbage. I know a lot of dommes, and they don’t all have terrible pasts with abuse or “promiscuous” sex or have been dreaming since the schoolyard of beating up their male colleagues, although some do—and of those that do, some will say it’s the reason they did this, and others will say that it had nothing to do with their decision.

An eighteen year old girl once asked me if she’d make a good domme because she’s “strong and not freaked out by anything. Do you think that doing the work you do has given you a more or less realistic view of what the world is like? If I’ve had a crappy session where I didn’t connect with the client, or I drove 80 minutes round trip to get blown off by two clients in a row, uh, let’s just say it’s a substantially lower number. On a professional scale, at least from what I’ve seen, there seem to be a couple “waves” of dominatrixes in the US. It really had very little to do with my own individual charms or wiles and everything to do about how my personal characteristics were valued in this f*cked-up society of ours.Do you seek to bestow pain upon someone to the point of tears, with or without their consent, simply because it makes you wet? That night was so much fun that the threesome decides to have play parties monthly, with Dave being the slave.