In the beginning of our arrangement with our daughter, we were very much focused on correcting those aspects of Melanie’s behavior and attitude with which we were very familiar. So she found herself regularly taking a trip over my lap or her father’s knee until she learned to adjust. In those early weeks and months consistency was the key – and every single one of those spankings helped Melanie to achieve the correction in her attitude and conduct that we all desired. She smiled at him through her tears. She loved to please Jake. She loved to hear his praises of her. Authentic hand spanking on my very cheeky pert bare bottom .A very angry headmistress (wife) can and does apply punishment often and soundly . I've read a lot of comments from women in DD relationships that express their resistance to corner time. Usually the reason given is that it's boring or that they'd get impatient and restless if they had to spend more than a few minutes there. And yes, it's certainly not as glamorous or dramatic or even sexual as a spanking is. The power of corner time is more subtle and nuanced, and it's buried deep in the hidden, personal stillness of our hearts.

For additional embarrassment/complexity for "time out" or corner time, consider a brown paper bag over his head, or a dunce's cap. There's a certain pattern to corner time, at least for me. And that pattern is virtually identical to the pattern commonly associated with traditional meditation (when it's working). Both are a psychological journey with several stages, from stress to peace. Jacob raised a large hand to her face, grabbed her cheek, and gently pulled her lip from her teeth with his thumb.A lot of people pay a lot of money to take courses and attend retreats on meditation, yoga and other relaxation techniques. I know, because I used to be one of them. To relieve my stress and quiet my mind and just give myself permission to Be, I've tried yoga, meditation, chanting, deep breathing, mantras, affirmations, prayer, you name it. Some of these worked better than others for me and, of course, all of them can be deeply effective methods for connecting with that calm, still, sacred part deep inside of all of us. Jacob grabbed her chin and turned her face so she couldn’t avert his gaze. “Eyes on me, young lady. Start again.” I understand,” said Jaime, knowing that baring her already warmed bottom for a second spanking would be a challenge. She obeyed. She knew better than to disobey at this point. She cried softly for the eleven minutes and at the sound of his voice pulled up her panties and jeans and moved over to the couch. His, “Well done”, rewarded Jaime.

Placed Over My Knees: After, what I feel is a sufficient time for you to reflect upon your misbehavior, and, for any questions that you might have, Little Miss High and Mighty, I will take you by the hand, or by your ear, and, guide you over to the chair, and over my knees. For you to become defiant, and/or rebellious will only add to your discipline. There will be plenty of time for your struggling, cursing, and expressions of outrageous indignation while you are being held firmly across my lap and as I spank your lovely bottom until you cannot sit down comfortably. There are various positions, such as hands behind or on his head, and this is to be established as as standard, which can be varied, but there should be a known understood basic requirement that the husband is trained in. When a distant dad and his rebellious teenage daughter are trapped at home by a pandemic, he has to learn how to discipline.The first was the Ace of spades. That meant eleven minutes of corner time for her bottom to cool. Jaime knew that wasn’t very much time. His spankings always stayed with her for a while. She shook as she drew the next card. She desperately hoped for a six of hearts. But, no, it couldn’t be that. It was the Ace of diamonds. The thought of eleven swats with the strap, on top of her paddled bottom, started he sobs all over. In our relationship, mandatory corner time follows every spanking. Depending on how much time we have, the seriousness of the offense and my attitude preceding it, corner time generally lasts at least 20 minutes, sometimes an hour, and occasionally longer for a more serious misbehavior.

Sara’s gaze snapped up to meet his. Jacob’s eyes were cool and unnerving. The normal glint of humor that lived there was nowhere to be found. More details to follow – and as you can see Melanie has been inspired to add appropriate pictures, which we hope will make this rather wordy column a little more entertaining for readers! Regarding corner time the husband need not have done anything to warrant it. The wife can do it simply because she can. It will remind him of his place. Putting him there in front of guests could be considered harsh but effective. The husband could be further humiliated by doing his corner time naked.Domestic discipline relationships can work only if both partners agree to take defined roles and believe that it will enhance their relationship. If someone is unwilling to take on a role or doesn’t feel comfortable in it (it can concern not only women but men as well), it’s probably not the best choice to be involved in a domestic discipline relationship. Remember that mutual consent, defined rules, punishment methods, and limits are what makes domestic discipline different from abuse. So that first six months was very much a period of adjustment for our daughter and we didn’t let her get away with anything. So if she showed even a trace of disrespect or bad attitude, she would find herself taking a trip over my knee with her panties down for a good, sound spanking on her bare bottom. Through constant reinforcement in this way, with lectures, spankings and corner time, Melanie’s behavior began to improve. Not overnight by any means, but week by week we began to see real improvement. She may set an alarm, such as on a mobile phone, if she wants the husband to just reappear after a set time, or she can make a point of going and fetching him after. This is good if a lecture is to be carried out. The exasperated girlfriend who has had enough of your lazing about and decides to use your own belt to teach you a lesson