The optimal method will depend on how much time you want to devote to caring for your toy and how authentic you want the experience to be.

I like to take my time with Fleshlights, build up slowly to the big explosion, but this time I had no chance.Try to completely prepare your sleeve so that it feels as much like soft skin as possible before entering a heated hole to totally replicate sex. It comes in several varieties, including a realistic model of Riley’s vagina or butt, each with its own sleeve design. If you’re looking for an alternative to the Fleshlight Girls line, you could try the Zhang Xiao Yu’s Realistic Pussy Masturbator, which is based on China’s most famous nude model.

Don’t forget that Fleshlight has a Loyalty program that lets you earn points in a few different ways. If you want a realistic fleshlight that’s modeled after a real vagina, you can try the fleshlightsgirls line and fantasize about your favorite porn star.The box says to not use lubricant on the warmer – however without a small amount of lubrication, it’s extremely tricky to get the sleeve onto and off the warmer.

Fleshlights are designed to be inconspicuous - but let’s face it: everyone has seen one these days and no one’s going to fall for the idea that it’s just a flashlight.It can be an overwhelming sensation if you don’t go slow, but its tightness will force you to take your time, at least at first.